I know it's hard to believe this now, this quote, but I also believe that it's true. And 'okay' means different things to different people. It doesn't always mean sunshine and flowers, and we're all shiny happy people again. It can mean that this person is finally out of pain, as much as we are in it. It can mean that you got to spend 30 years with the love of your life; most people aren't that lucky. It can mean that you have friends that bring you food and keep you company when you need it. It can mean that someday, you know, that you will see them again. I hope this makes sense.